Anna had a dream. It was a dream of a haven for women, a place of support and understanding for eating disorders. Though Anna was forced to leave the University and return home because of her illness, her vision for a faith-based meeting of women finally became a reality this semester because of other dedicated students.

With the help of Chandra Johnson, assistant to the president, A Life Uncommon, which draws its name from a Jewel song of the same title, was formed by sophomores Sarah Shacklett and Allie Swiacki, and juniors Darcy McLaughlin and Amy Wodoslawsky to combat a common campus problem: eating disorders.

This organization of women, co-sponsored by Campus Ministry and the Counseling Center, recognizes eating disorders as an illness of the soul, not simply a problem with food. It confidentially gathers women struggling with a disorder or an obsession with food, friends of those with a problem and any woman who express a desire to learn and understand this widespread dilemma.

"We didn't want it to be from a clinical standpoint at all — every women can benefit from attending," said Shacklett.

After much discussion and planning with the administration last semester, A Life Uncommon conducted its first meeting on March 28 and has since held four additional meetings. The initial meeting was successful with approximately 80 students participating. Since then, the number attending has ranged from 40 to 75 students.

A typical meeting opens with a prayer by Johnson and a speaker to talk about the week's theme. Past themes have included pre-anorexic tendencies, isolation versus connection and relating to God. The goal is to have each woman discover a comfort zone to share experiences and increase understanding in all aspects of eating disorders.

"It creates an environment where girls can help each other. By talking about it, women realize everyone is doing unhealthy things," said Swiacki.

Subsequently, the women break into small groups for a more intimate discussion. A group leader uses three focus questions to facilitate the discussion, but it will often head in whatever direction the women decide to take it.

"It's girls talking and finding healing in each other," said Shacklett.

Everyone is also given a piece of paper to write down anything they wish at the end of the meeting and these prayers, hopes, and struggles are all taken to the Grotto. To conclude, the meetings always end with a prayer and a song.

Though this past Wednesday marked the year's last meeting, plans for next school year are already in motion. As of now, A Life Uncommon does not have official club status, but they are currently going through the progress to become a club. The women also hope to gain recognition and increase membership by speaking at Freshmen Orientation and offering a retreat.

The meetings will continue every week next year, and organizers plan to incorporate males into some meetings as well.

"It's important for guys to be more informed," said McLaughlin.

As students aimed at fighting eating disorders, improving personal growth and acceptance, A Life Uncommon is a unique resource at Notre Dame.

"The fact that we have it is amazing," said McLaughlin. "It's an opportunity for girls to get together. It's a place where people can come and get support."

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