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A Visit Before Dying
Notre Dame has had an enduring association with last wishes.
Ed Cohen

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Duck gateFor the first three quarters the coach and the bookies had their way.

On the cold November afternoon in Evanston, Illinois, Notre Dame’s first All-American sat shivering under a blanket on the bench as his teammates controlled Northwestern. His complexion was sickly, he ached all over, he had a bad cough. The coach wanted him to rest for the big game the following week against Michigan State to crown the “Champions of the West” for 1920. According to a teammate, the star player had fallen behind in his gambling debts, but his bookies had promised to give him a clean slate if he just sat out the Northwestern game.

For whatever reason, the star halfback ignored his respiratory problems and common sense and came off the bench in the fourth quarter, completing five of six passes for two meaningless touchdowns in a 33-7 win. In a few days he would be hospitalized. In less than a month he would be dead of strep throat and pneumonia, a fatal combination in those pre-antibiotic days.

During the last visit from his coach, Knute Rockne, the dying George Gipp famously reassured him, “I’ve got to go Rock. It’s all right. I’m not afraid.” Gipp, who was 25 and whose team record for career rushing yards would stand for more than half a century, then peered into the future.

“Sometime, Rock, when the team is up against it, when things are wrong and the breaks are beating the boys — tell them to go in there with all they’ve got and win just one for the Gipper. I don’t know where I’ll be then, Rock. But I’ll know about it, and I’ll be happy.”

Rockne would tell the story to his Notre Dame team eight years later in a speech in the Yankee Stadium locker room before a game against heavily favored Army. The Irish, injury-depleted but suffused with Gipp ghost power, triumphed 12-6. Over the years many writers have suggested that the story was a fabrication of a shrewd motivator, but Rockne, who would die tragically himself three years later in a plane crash, always insisted it was true.

The “Gipper Speech” is without doubt the most famous dying-wish story associated with Notre Dame. But over the years many people facing life-threatening illnesses have longed for a Notre Dame encounter of one kind or another. To watch one last game in Notre Dame Stadium. Make one last visit to the Grotto. Even to be admitted as a student.

What all the wishers have shared is a belief in the Notre Dame mystique, a desire to connect with it, to get there somehow, be it for the thousandth time or the first. In at least some instances, happily, the visit turns out not to be their last.

Kurt Weiss first came to Notre Dame in 1983 from Pittsburgh when he was 9. He helped his sister Gretchen move into Walsh Hall as a freshman. When the job was done the family had some quiet time to look around, watch the squirrels play, hang out at the Grotto. He felt an instant connection.

“I knew it was a place I wanted to spend as much of my life as I could.” As he grew older Weiss became determined to follow in his sister’s footsteps, which included playing with the marching band. But as a high school freshman he was diagnosed with bone cancer in his leg. The disease later spread to his lungs.

“I was a pretty sick kid,” he recalls, quickly adding that he never thought he was going to die. Which made it all the more unnerving when the Make-A-Wish Foundation contacted him. Like most people, the teen thought the charitable organization only granted dying wishes. Actually it seeks to enrich the lives of children facing life-threatening illnesses and their families. Many wish-makers recover.

When illness forced Weiss to give up playing football and other sports, he focused on music. He thus made his wish a two-parter: a new silver tenor saxophone, and the right to play with the Band of the Fighting Irish at whatever bowl game Notre Dame would be invited to following the 1989 season (it turned out to be the Orange Bowl). Although his leg condition prevented him from marching, he was able to practice with the band for several days and play from the stands. He thoroughly enjoyed the experience.

After returning home he underwent two total knee replacements and, later, experimental chemotherapy, but he says he was more determined than ever to achieve his college goal. “During my treatments, I focused on getting into Notre Dame instead of feeling sorry for myself.”

The chemotherapy worked, and Weiss eventually was admitted to Notre Dame. Despite continuing leg problems that forced doctors to amputate part of one leg in 1996, he marched with the band and was elected band president his senior year. He graduated in 1997.

Today he and his wife, Laura Michelle Weiss ’99, have a son, and Weiss is in his fourth year of medical school. He plans to specialize, appropriately, in orthopedics or pediatrics with a subspecialty in oncology.

Five years after Weiss’s trip to the Orange Bowl, Joe Collins of Placentia, California, near Los Angeles, enjoyed a similar Make-A-Wish experience when the foundation brought him and his family to campus the weekend of a home game against Air Force. Like Weiss, Collins had been diagnosed with bone cancer in his leg as a high school freshman. Like Weiss, he dreamed of returning as a student. And like Weiss, he got in and is now cancer free. The Californian graduated last May with a degree in marketing and film and television and is looking for a job in advertising.

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