Lecture 17: Mate Selection: Physical Attraction, Love, and Relationships 

 

I. Physical attractiveness and Mate Selection

           

            Evolution versus Social Structure

 

II. Love

 

A. What is it?

 

            1. Differences across cultures and over time

 

            2. Feelings

 

            3. Thoughts

                        Attachment

                        Caring

                        Trust & Self-Disclosure

 

            4. Behaviors-- 7 kinds of things we do to show love:

 

B. Kinds of Love

 

            1. Passionate

 

            2. Companionate Love

 

            3. Triangle Theory of Love

 

C. Ending Relationships: Costs/Rewards, Comparisons, and Equity